How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 18.06.2025 06:36
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Has a psychic ever made a crazy prediction that turned out to be true?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Does not procrastinate.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
How do you get a teenage boy to care about hygiene?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
What are some effective ways to cope with loss and grief?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Making more friends is a goal.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
How does someone start doing urban exploration?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Hangs out with loser friends.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
That's it for today.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Why is the world male-dominated?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Do not set goals—set systems.
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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Ask yourself:
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Teens like me, what are your expectations when entering adulthood?
Procrastinates a lot.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.